Is the Lovers a good card to get in a question about your love life?
The Lovers card is THE Love card. This card reminds me of the song Heaven by Brian Adams. This card often shows up when your relationship is protected by heaven. This card describes love on many different levels such as divine love, relationship love, and self-love depending on the question and the other cards in the spread. The Lovers often shows up when you have got many options in love, and you will have to make a decision about who is the best partner for you. The Lovers speaks of a partner that is different from you in all the right areas so that you bring out new and exciting qualities in each other. This is a relationship where you will find out who you are and what you believe in.
Lovers tarot card in a love reading
The Lovers speaks of a relationship that always feels new. You feel like you’ve just met even after 10 or more years together because heaven is continuously blessing this relationship making you more and more in love with each other as time goes by. There is also a psychic connection between you. The Lovers denotes a holy relationship between two people who are destined to be together.
Learn the traditional meaning of the Lovers tarot card.
However, there is a snake in the Garden of Eve. The Lovers are very attractive to each other and also to other people. When this card shows up there might be someone watching the lovers and thinking: I want what they have. Especially past lovers seem to feel ignored and abandoned when they see their exes happy with someone else. They might try and get into the garden where the lovers are, sneaking their way in to see why you are now looking so much happier than what you did with them. The Lovers card advises you to avoid playing games. Love is not a game, and if you turn it into one, you will lose even if you win. Because if you win, your lover loses, and thus you have lost as well because you are one.
When your partner suffers, you suffer. When you suffer, your partner suffers. That is the price you pay to have the only thing worthwhile, which is love. Therefore, avoid playing games. Make yourself happy, as then your partner will be happy too. The Lovers denotes a relationship where two people meet who are less than who they want to be, but together they become everything they ever dreamed of and more. Suddenly they have the spark they lacked when they were alone.
The Lovers speaks of love so deep that not even death can get between you. If one partner dies, the relationship still continues. The other partner rarely re-marries, and in some cases the other half dies soon after. We have all heard the stories of couples where one dies and then the other dies of a broken heart. Their desire to be together is too great and love ALWAYS wins.
The Lovers tarot card Love Meaning summary
To sum it up: The Lovers speaks of a holy relationship blessed by heaven. The longer you are together the stronger is the love, and the deeper you fall in love with the other person. Your lover is someone who complements you and together you bring out new and exciting qualities in each other. You will have the spark to create a dream you didn’t even know you had before.